i thought that this UPSjob was my id, but i am wrong so can somone tell me where i can register -_- i feel like such an idiot

When you go to log in at the log in screen, simply type Desired Login Name_M or _F (M for male account, F for female account) and then type your password, and it will create an account for you. For future login's just take the _M or _F out.

This information can also be found in the "How to Connect" section of the forums.